Woman Refuses to Invite Cousin Who STOLE Her Man to Meet New Fiancé! 💔😠

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🔥 Buckle up, folks, because we've got a juicy family drama on our hands! 👀 Meet our protagonist, a young woman caught in the middle of a lifelong rivalry with her cousin, Lily. 🙅‍♀️ From childhood besties to bitter enemies, these two have been through it all. But when our girl finds love and decides to introduce her new man to the fam, she "accidentally" leaves Lily off the guest list. 😬 Oops! Now, the claws are out, and accusations are flying. 🐱 Will our heroine stand her ground or cave to the pressure? Let's dive in and find out! 🍿

👭 Cousins Pushed Together Since Childhood

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🙅‍♀️ Moms Never Got the Memo

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🎓 Introducing the College Boyfriend

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💔 Devastating Betrayal: Cousin Steals Boyfriend

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💒 Lily and Ex Get Hitched

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🚫 Going Low Contact with Aunt and Cousin

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👶 Lily and Ex Have Kids

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💍 Getting Engaged and Planning a Party

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🎉 Introducing Fiancé to Family, Sans Lily

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🙅‍♀️ Deciding Against Inviting Lily

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🎊 Party Goes Off Without a Hitch

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🤫 Keeping Lily in the Dark

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🍖 BBQ Blowup: Lily Finds Out

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😡 Aunt and Lily Confront Me

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🗣️ Accusations Fly at the BBQ

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Family Feud Erupts Over Excluded Cousin!

Looks like our girl's plan to keep Cousin Lily out of the loop has backfired spectacularly! The tea was spilled at the family BBQ, and now Lily and her mom are on the warpath, accusing our protagonist of being petty, and insecure, and trying to turn the family against them. Even her mom is giving her the side-eye for the sneaky move. But wait, there's more! Turns out, Lily and the ex are on the rocks, and Mom thinks now's the time for our girl to extend an olive branch. The question on everyone's mind: will she suck it up and make nice, or stick to her guns and tell them to kick rocks? The internet is dying to know! 🌎

NTA commenter defends woman's choice not to invite cousin.

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NTA. Call out your aunt and mom's toxic behavior. 👏

5115E | 5115E

Family drama! NTA, keep your distance. Don't let her meddle 🙅‍♀️

inalienabletruth | inalienabletruth

NTA stands up against cousin who stole her man 👏

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NTA. Lily and others are assholes for not respecting boundaries.

cara180455 | cara180455

Keeping her man-stealing cousin out of her life 👍

WeeklyBloom | WeeklyBloom

Cutting out toxic family members is self-care 👌

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Take charge of your life, NTA! 👏

2006bruin | 2006bruin

Cutting off toxic family members is the best decision 👍

odirilemoses | odirilemoses

Supportive comment and advice with a touch of humor 😁

EvilLoynis | EvilLoynis

OP's cousin is a toxic homewrecker, NTA for not inviting her.

mochaluvr1 | mochaluvr1

🚫👩‍❤️‍👨 Cousin stole her man, OP refused to invite her. NTA.

Gryffindor_prefect | Gryffindor_prefect

Cutting ties with toxic family: NTA and don't look back.

Dangerfyeld | Dangerfyeld

Congratulations on your engagement! 🎉 NTA for not inviting cousin who ruined your past relationship.

Puppet007 | Puppet007

Calling Lily a homewrecker, but forgiving fiancé's potential cheating. 🤔

jagerbombs127 | jagerbombs127

NTA! Keep your distance from them, they just want to suck all your joy. 😠

LeReineNoir | LeReineNoir

No forgiveness for the boyfriend thief! NTA 👏

cheetahutopia | cheetahutopia

Family pressures woman to forgive cousin who stole her man. NTA.

BeTxSo__ | BeTxSo__

Avoiding awkward interactions: NTA for not inviting cousin and ex 😊

chewiechihuahua | chewiechihuahua

NTA stands firm against relationship-wrecker Lily and her aunt.

DetectiVentriloquist | DetectiVentriloquist

OP shouldn't invite cousin who stole her man to wedding 💍😤

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Trust your fiancé and enjoy your life with supportive people ❤

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NTA. Family should support not condone partner-stealing. 👍

AmIBeingPunkd- | AmIBeingPunkd-

NTA. Fiancé doesn't need to meet everyone at once. Congrats! 😎

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

Cousin stole her man, she's not inviting her, NTA. 😍

Anisaxxx | Anisaxxx

Stand your ground and protect your relationship! 👏

upsettispaghetti97 | upsettispaghetti97

Take control of your life and say 'No' to unreasonable demands. NTA.

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Cutting off toxic family member, sister approves 👍

no_rxn | no_rxn

NTA! Who cares what they say, don't invite her. 💁‍♀️

Abel69420 | Abel69420

NTA shuts down family's defense of homewrecker cousin 👏

SnooMemesjellies6876 | SnooMemesjellies6876

Cut toxic people out of your life, you owe them nothing 👍

rs_plays_ac | rs_plays_ac

Homewreckers don't deserve an invite 👏, keep her away! NTA.

skizethelimit | skizethelimit

Put yourself first and cut out toxic relatives. Self-care 👍

kbtoystore_ | kbtoystore_

Family betrayal: commenter supports OP's decision to cut off cousin

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Take control of your life, cut out the toxic cousin! 👌

farawaythinker | farawaythinker

Cutting toxic ties with family is okay. NTA. 👍

iiiBansheeiii | iiiBansheeiii

Betrayal by cousin, NTA for refusing to invite her 🙅‍♀️

1234Nne | 1234Nne

Protect yourself and your love. NTA for not inviting.

WineAndDogs2020 | WineAndDogs2020

Cutting toxic family members: NTA sets healthy boundaries 👍

Horror-mrs | Horror-mrs

Don't mess with family or else...👊😏

llorandosefue1 | llorandosefue1

No need to invite cousin who stole her man. NTA! 👏🏼

ForeverBlessed-27 | ForeverBlessed-27

Ex's cousin is a homewrecker, NTA for not inviting her. 😍

Fidel_Costco | Fidel_Costco

Family pressure to appease cousin who stole her man? NTA 😳

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Cutting ties with a home wrecker. NTA 👍

Any_Advance_8222 | Any_Advance_8222

Sis is right, don't invite the home wrecker. 👍

Stardustpeddler | Stardustpeddler

Cousin steals woman's man, gets excluded from meeting new fiancé

lighthollow | lighthollow

Don't invite Lily. Your family should support you. 👏

teamoon2020 | teamoon2020

No forgiveness for the homewrecker, NTA 👏

IrrevocablyDamaged | IrrevocablyDamaged

User implies inviting the cousin is a bad idea. NTA.

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OP's mother might have set her up. Drama llama indeed! 😠

ScifiGirl1986 | ScifiGirl1986

Family doesn't mean automatic invitation to partner's life. NTA 👍

agentpjr | agentpjr

Stand your ground FIRMLY, you owe them nothing. 👊

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Honesty is key! Tell FH everything about your cousin 👍

FrozenForestFrost | FrozenForestFrost

Cousin's betrayal & lack of remorse sparks support for OP. 👏

MuchSun8 | MuchSun8

Live for your own happiness, forget about pleasing your cousin. NTA 👏

skoits7 | skoits7

Family ties don't always mean friendship, NTA for setting boundaries.

B4pangea | B4pangea

Cutting off toxic people is self-care 👍

Viperbunny | Viperbunny

Setting boundaries with family. NTA 👍

tropicsandcaffeine | tropicsandcaffeine

Protect your relationship from man-stealing cousin. NTA. 👍

primaltriad77 | primaltriad77

Cutting toxic people out is self-care. Good for you! 🙌

mcal47 | mcal47

Cousin steals ex and OP's new fiance? NTA for not inviting.

Poprock077 | Poprock077

Cutting ties with toxic cousin. NTA 👏

408270 | 408270

Mom should support OP, not the cousin who stole her man. NTA 👍

Dachshundmom5 | Dachshundmom5

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