She CAN'T Have Kids...And Never Told Him 👶🙅‍♀️💔

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Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a doozy of a story for you today. Meet our leading lady, a 29-year-old woman who's been crystal clear about her stance on kids from day one: absolutely not, no way, no how! 🙅‍♀️ She thought she'd found her perfect match in her fiancé, but boy, was she in for a surprise. 😳 Grab your popcorn 🍿 and get ready for a wild ride filled with shocking revelations, painful pasts, and a whole lot of drama! 🎭

🚫👶 Childfree From the Start

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💑 Meeting My Fiancé

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💍 He Put a Ring On It

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😳 Fiancé's Surprising Response

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🚗 The Shocking Revelation

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😡 He Thought I'd Change My Mind

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🤰 My Painful Past

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😰 The Toll on My Mental Health

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😌 Peace of Mind At Last

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🤐 Why I Never Told Him

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😠 He Called Me an A-hole

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💔 Sad But Resolute

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🗣️ Opinions from Others

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🙅‍♀️ No Kids, No Way, No How

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🚫👨‍👩‍👧 Not Even Babysitting!

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📝 It Was Always Clear

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😱 Fiancé's Shocking Baby Bombshell!

Well, well, well... looks like our leading lady is in quite the pickle! 🥒 She thought she'd found her happily ever after with a man who shared her childfree dreams, but it turns out he was hoping she'd change her mind all along! 😲 To make matters worse, she's been keeping a secret of her own: she's already been sterilized due to a traumatic past experience. 😰 Now, the truth is out, and her fiancé is NOT happy. He's even calling her an a-hole for not telling him sooner! 😠 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama... 🍿👀

Communication is key in relationships. Don't expect to change someone's views.

r4catstoomant | r4catstoomant

Woman is NTA for being sterilized and not wanting kids. Fiancé is TA for deceiving her.

Eve-3 | Eve-3

Unwanted pregnancy, unwanted AH. Consent is crucial 👍

Head-Meaning2741 | Head-Meaning2741

No kids, no negotiation. You're not guilty. Move on 👍

Fabulous-Shallot1413 | Fabulous-Shallot1413

Choosing sterilization over ambiguity and being honest. NTA 👍

SmurfetteIsAussie | SmurfetteIsAussie

Being upfront about not wanting kids is important. NTA 👍

fuzzy_ladybug | fuzzy_ladybug

Partner is TA for not disclosing you couldn't have kids 😒

peakpenguins | peakpenguins

NTA. Clear communication is key. He lied, goals don't align 👍

Ok-Reply9552 | Ok-Reply9552

She stood her ground and he was deceitful. NTA 👏

Trailsya | Trailsya

Empathetic comment shows support for woman's decision 👏

DevelopmentBetter260 | DevelopmentBetter260

Setting boundaries is important. Some people don't respect them 🤷‍♂️

LLJKSiLk | LLJKSiLk

"I'm not sure whether or not I want you to get pregnant for me." Lmao, the audacity. 😂

vox1028 | vox1028

Partner wants kids, but she can't and never told him. NTA.

Glum-Bet-9895 | Glum-Bet-9895

Double standards much? 🤨

ExtinctFauna | ExtinctFauna

Partner lied and manipulated, not about lack of kids. NTA 👏

WelshWickedWitch | WelshWickedWitch

Dump the mamma's boy who tricked you into his bed 🙅‍♀️

boredathome1962 | boredathome1962

Heartbreaking experience of being lied to despite being honest. 💔

SummitJunkie7 | SummitJunkie7

Don't keep secrets from your partner. You're NTA. 👍

6352956104 | 6352956104

Curiosity killed the cat, but not his ignorance 😼

Cardabella | Cardabella

Partner lied about wanting kids, commenter not at fault. 👍

Sissynoodle321 | Sissynoodle321

Not the a-hole. What was his plan if you didn't change your mind? 🤔

Spare-Valuable8031 | Spare-Valuable8031

Dump the disrespectful liar 🚫🙅‍♀️💔

HoshiJones | HoshiJones

Fiancé's big plan backfired, he's not to be trusted. NTA 👍

Drama_Queen2013 | Drama_Queen2013

Don't stay in a relationship hoping to change someone. 🚫 NTA.

boymom04 | boymom04

Be honest about not being able to have kids. 💔

FunSheepherder6509 | FunSheepherder6509

Empathetic comment on society's treatment of women as incubators. 👶🙅‍♀️💔

Artistic_Sun1825 | Artistic_Sun1825

Communication is key in discussions about birth control 📲

Difficult_Article439 | Difficult_Article439

Dodged a bullet 💥. NTA for not wanting kids. Disrespectful ex.

Couette-Couette | Couette-Couette

Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for getting sterilized. 🙅‍♀️

toastedmarsh7 | toastedmarsh7

NTA, he lied about wanting kids and tried to trap you 🙅‍♀️

chicharrones_yum | chicharrones_yum

Why didn't she tell her husband she was sterilized? 🤔

whatsverddb | whatsverddb

Clear communication is key 👍🏼

Contagious_Cure | Contagious_Cure

User refuses to babysit and supports OP in dodging a bullet 😂

No_Scarcity8249 | No_Scarcity8249

Woman discovers fiance lied, but she's NTA for being sterilized.

Neonpinx | Neonpinx

Dodged a bullet 🎯💥, NTA for not wanting kids.

Sohym9 | Sohym9

Be honest about wanting children, don't manipulate. NTA 👍

StatisticianNaive277 | StatisticianNaive277

NTA defends against partner's dishonesty and coercion 👏

petulafaerie_III | petulafaerie_III

NTA. He lied and manipulated you. You deserve better. 💪

Cool_Relative7359 | Cool_Relative7359

Partner wants kids, she can't. Commenter defends her. 👶🙅‍♀️

anitram96 | anitram96

Honesty is key. NTA for being clear about not wanting kids 👍

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Fiancé kept secret about kids, NTAH for being honest.

TherealOmthetortoise | TherealOmthetortoise

Respecting partner's wishes is crucial. Honesty is key 👍

An-Deesei | An-Deesei

Honesty is key in relationships, even when it's uncomfortable. 🙌

PsychologicalSense41 | PsychologicalSense41

Being child-free is a hot trend, but communication is key. 💬

Shdfx1 | Shdfx1

NTA. Commenter sympathizes with the woman and calls out the man.

danger_of_biscuits | danger_of_biscuits

Be direct about not wanting kids 👶🙅‍♀️💔

GOTTOOMANYANIMALS | GOTTOOMANYANIMALS

Clear communication is key. NTA for setting boundaries 👍

LanaraLore | LanaraLore

👍 Being sterilized doesn't matter. Partner lied, they're the AH.

Suchafatfatcat | Suchafatfatcat

Ex is TA for lying about wanting children and trying to force OP. 👎

Malibucat48 | Malibucat48

Partner disregarded her wishes on having kids. NTA 👍

edked | edked

Crystal clear about no kids. He's the a**hole for pressuring. NTA 👍

-comfypants | -comfypants

Partner lied about wanting kids, disrespected choices. NTA. 💪

Sensimya | Sensimya

End it now to avoid resentment and pressure. 💔

Sunbeamsoffglass | Sunbeamsoffglass

NTA stands up for herself against manipulative partner 👊

MmaRamotsweOS | MmaRamotsweOS

Harsh advice? Break up and move on, according to commenter.

Emmanulla70 | Emmanulla70

NTA, but he's the liar for not being upfront about kids 🙅‍♀️

pendemoneum | pendemoneum

Partner disregarded her choice, now she can't have kids 🙅‍♀️

Regular_Boot_3540 | Regular_Boot_3540

Being upfront about infertility in a relationship is important ❤️

lbvlbv | lbvlbv

Concerned commenter questions lack of communication in birth control use.

wolfdog127 | wolfdog127

Partner lied about wanting kids, now mad she can't have them. NTA 👏

Bigolbooty75 | Bigolbooty75

Having kids is a dealbreaker 🙅‍♀️. NTA, time to move on 👍

Minute-Aioli-5054 | Minute-Aioli-5054

Partner's selfishness in childbearing decision leads to heartbreak 💔

Carolann0308 | Carolann0308

Respect for childfree people. Honesty and happiness are crucial.

WampireKitt3n | WampireKitt3n

Condoms or raw dogging? NTA, but why no discussion?

Beginning-Bed9364 | Beginning-Bed9364

Stand your ground, dump him. 👊 You deserve better. 👏

whatever102485 | whatever102485

Respectful NTA comment supports woman's right to choose ✔

FeuRougeManor | FeuRougeManor

Dodged a bullet with this NTA. Future partners: be warned 👋

orangeants | orangeants

ESH for not communicating about having kids and birth control 👶🙅‍♀️

evil-mouse | evil-mouse

Being honest about not wanting or being able to have kids 💔🚫

Sufficient_Oil_1756 | Sufficient_Oil_1756

Partner proposed despite knowing no kids, got angry at *her*.

Significant-Trash632 | Significant-Trash632

Sharing health information in a relationship: NTA wins

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NTA for being honest, he wasted her time and lied.

lovepeacefakepiano | lovepeacefakepiano

Partner lied for years about wanting kids, NTA for being upfront. 👶🙅‍♀️💔

Head_Butterscotch_40 | Head_Butterscotch_40

Partner's lack of honesty before wedding leads to NTA verdict.

BellaSantiago1975 | BellaSantiago1975

NTA. Partner hoped for a change of mind. Dump him. 👶🙅‍♀️💔

Puzzleheaded-Value38 | Puzzleheaded-Value38

Sharing the truth about fertility is important, but not mandatory 🙅‍♀️

Supersaneduck | Supersaneduck

Being honest upfront is key. Don't let anyone manipulate you. ✌🏻

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Medical history important for emergency situations. 99% NTA. ❤

Raspbers | Raspbers

Be upfront about not wanting kids to filter out douchebags! 👌

Asmo___deus | Asmo___deus

Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for being sterilized. 👍

blondeheartedgoddess | blondeheartedgoddess

Be cautious, OP. Some partners lie about being child-free. NTA.

JadieJang | JadieJang

Run, OP! 😱 He's not trustworthy and tried to trap you 😠

Own_Can_3495 | Own_Can_3495

Partner blaming woman for not disclosing infertility. NTA, he is.

iyamlikelyhi | iyamlikelyhi

Marriage dealbreaker and communication breakdown 💔

Any_Weird_8686 | Any_Weird_8686

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