Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a doozy of a story for you today. Meet our leading lady, a 29-year-old woman who's been crystal clear about her stance on kids from day one: absolutely not, no way, no how! 🙅♀️ She thought she'd found her perfect match in her fiancé, but boy, was she in for a surprise. 😳 Grab your popcorn 🍿 and get ready for a wild ride filled with shocking revelations, painful pasts, and a whole lot of drama! 🎭
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🚫👶 Childfree From the Start
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💑 Meeting My Fiancé
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💍 He Put a Ring On It
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😳 Fiancé's Surprising Response
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🚗 The Shocking Revelation
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😡 He Thought I'd Change My Mind
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🤰 My Painful Past
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😰 The Toll on My Mental Health
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😌 Peace of Mind At Last
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🤐 Why I Never Told Him
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😠 He Called Me an A-hole
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💔 Sad But Resolute
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🗣️ Opinions from Others
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🙅♀️ No Kids, No Way, No How
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🚫👨👩👧 Not Even Babysitting!
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📝 It Was Always Clear
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😱 Fiancé's Shocking Baby Bombshell!
Well, well, well... looks like our leading lady is in quite the pickle! 🥒 She thought she'd found her happily ever after with a man who shared her childfree dreams, but it turns out he was hoping she'd change her mind all along! 😲 To make matters worse, she's been keeping a secret of her own: she's already been sterilized due to a traumatic past experience. 😰 Now, the truth is out, and her fiancé is NOT happy. He's even calling her an a-hole for not telling him sooner! 😠 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama... 🍿👀
Communication is key in relationships. Don't expect to change someone's views.
r4catstoomant | r4catstoomant
Woman is NTA for being sterilized and not wanting kids. Fiancé is TA for deceiving her.
Eve-3 | Eve-3
Unwanted pregnancy, unwanted AH. Consent is crucial 👍
Head-Meaning2741 | Head-Meaning2741
No kids, no negotiation. You're not guilty. Move on 👍
Fabulous-Shallot1413 | Fabulous-Shallot1413
Choosing sterilization over ambiguity and being honest. NTA 👍
SmurfetteIsAussie | SmurfetteIsAussie
Being upfront about not wanting kids is important. NTA 👍
fuzzy_ladybug | fuzzy_ladybug
Partner is TA for not disclosing you couldn't have kids 😒
peakpenguins | peakpenguins
NTA. Clear communication is key. He lied, goals don't align 👍
Ok-Reply9552 | Ok-Reply9552
She stood her ground and he was deceitful. NTA 👏
Trailsya | Trailsya
Empathetic comment shows support for woman's decision 👏
DevelopmentBetter260 | DevelopmentBetter260
Setting boundaries is important. Some people don't respect them 🤷♂️
LLJKSiLk | LLJKSiLk
"I'm not sure whether or not I want you to get pregnant for me." Lmao, the audacity. 😂
vox1028 | vox1028
Partner wants kids, but she can't and never told him. NTA.
Glum-Bet-9895 | Glum-Bet-9895
Double standards much? 🤨
ExtinctFauna | ExtinctFauna
Partner lied and manipulated, not about lack of kids. NTA 👏
WelshWickedWitch | WelshWickedWitch
Dump the mamma's boy who tricked you into his bed 🙅♀️
boredathome1962 | boredathome1962
Heartbreaking experience of being lied to despite being honest. 💔
SummitJunkie7 | SummitJunkie7
Don't keep secrets from your partner. You're NTA. 👍
6352956104 | 6352956104
Curiosity killed the cat, but not his ignorance 😼
Cardabella | Cardabella
Partner lied about wanting kids, commenter not at fault. 👍
Sissynoodle321 | Sissynoodle321
Not the a-hole. What was his plan if you didn't change your mind? 🤔
Spare-Valuable8031 | Spare-Valuable8031
Dump the disrespectful liar 🚫🙅♀️💔
HoshiJones | HoshiJones
Fiancé's big plan backfired, he's not to be trusted. NTA 👍
Drama_Queen2013 | Drama_Queen2013
Don't stay in a relationship hoping to change someone. 🚫 NTA.
boymom04 | boymom04
Be honest about not being able to have kids. 💔
FunSheepherder6509 | FunSheepherder6509
Empathetic comment on society's treatment of women as incubators. 👶🙅♀️💔
Artistic_Sun1825 | Artistic_Sun1825
Communication is key in discussions about birth control 📲
Difficult_Article439 | Difficult_Article439
Dodged a bullet 💥. NTA for not wanting kids. Disrespectful ex.
Couette-Couette | Couette-Couette
Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for getting sterilized. 🙅♀️
toastedmarsh7 | toastedmarsh7
NTA, he lied about wanting kids and tried to trap you 🙅♀️
chicharrones_yum | chicharrones_yum
Why didn't she tell her husband she was sterilized? 🤔
whatsverddb | whatsverddb
Clear communication is key 👍🏼
Contagious_Cure | Contagious_Cure
User refuses to babysit and supports OP in dodging a bullet 😂
No_Scarcity8249 | No_Scarcity8249
Woman discovers fiance lied, but she's NTA for being sterilized.
Neonpinx | Neonpinx
Dodged a bullet 🎯💥, NTA for not wanting kids.
Sohym9 | Sohym9
Be honest about wanting children, don't manipulate. NTA 👍
StatisticianNaive277 | StatisticianNaive277
NTA defends against partner's dishonesty and coercion 👏
petulafaerie_III | petulafaerie_III
NTA. He lied and manipulated you. You deserve better. 💪
Cool_Relative7359 | Cool_Relative7359
Partner wants kids, she can't. Commenter defends her. 👶🙅♀️
anitram96 | anitram96
Honesty is key. NTA for being clear about not wanting kids 👍
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Fiancé kept secret about kids, NTAH for being honest.
TherealOmthetortoise | TherealOmthetortoise
Respecting partner's wishes is crucial. Honesty is key 👍
An-Deesei | An-Deesei
Honesty is key in relationships, even when it's uncomfortable. 🙌
PsychologicalSense41 | PsychologicalSense41
Being child-free is a hot trend, but communication is key. 💬
Shdfx1 | Shdfx1
NTA. Commenter sympathizes with the woman and calls out the man.
danger_of_biscuits | danger_of_biscuits
Be direct about not wanting kids 👶🙅♀️💔
GOTTOOMANYANIMALS | GOTTOOMANYANIMALS
Clear communication is key. NTA for setting boundaries 👍
LanaraLore | LanaraLore
👍 Being sterilized doesn't matter. Partner lied, they're the AH.
Suchafatfatcat | Suchafatfatcat
Ex is TA for lying about wanting children and trying to force OP. 👎
Malibucat48 | Malibucat48
Partner disregarded her wishes on having kids. NTA 👍
edked | edked
Crystal clear about no kids. He's the a**hole for pressuring. NTA 👍
-comfypants | -comfypants
Partner lied about wanting kids, disrespected choices. NTA. 💪
Sensimya | Sensimya
End it now to avoid resentment and pressure. 💔
Sunbeamsoffglass | Sunbeamsoffglass
NTA stands up for herself against manipulative partner 👊
MmaRamotsweOS | MmaRamotsweOS
Harsh advice? Break up and move on, according to commenter.
Emmanulla70 | Emmanulla70
NTA, but he's the liar for not being upfront about kids 🙅♀️
pendemoneum | pendemoneum
Partner disregarded her choice, now she can't have kids 🙅♀️
Regular_Boot_3540 | Regular_Boot_3540
Being upfront about infertility in a relationship is important ❤️
lbvlbv | lbvlbv
Concerned commenter questions lack of communication in birth control use.
wolfdog127 | wolfdog127
Partner lied about wanting kids, now mad she can't have them. NTA 👏
Bigolbooty75 | Bigolbooty75
Having kids is a dealbreaker 🙅♀️. NTA, time to move on 👍
Minute-Aioli-5054 | Minute-Aioli-5054
Partner's selfishness in childbearing decision leads to heartbreak 💔
Carolann0308 | Carolann0308
Respect for childfree people. Honesty and happiness are crucial.
WampireKitt3n | WampireKitt3n
Condoms or raw dogging? NTA, but why no discussion?
Beginning-Bed9364 | Beginning-Bed9364
Stand your ground, dump him. 👊 You deserve better. 👏
whatever102485 | whatever102485
Respectful NTA comment supports woman's right to choose ✔
FeuRougeManor | FeuRougeManor
Dodged a bullet with this NTA. Future partners: be warned 👋
orangeants | orangeants
ESH for not communicating about having kids and birth control 👶🙅♀️
evil-mouse | evil-mouse
Being honest about not wanting or being able to have kids 💔🚫
Sufficient_Oil_1756 | Sufficient_Oil_1756
Partner proposed despite knowing no kids, got angry at *her*.
Significant-Trash632 | Significant-Trash632
Sharing health information in a relationship: NTA wins
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NTA for being honest, he wasted her time and lied.
lovepeacefakepiano | lovepeacefakepiano
Partner lied for years about wanting kids, NTA for being upfront. 👶🙅♀️💔
Head_Butterscotch_40 | Head_Butterscotch_40
Partner's lack of honesty before wedding leads to NTA verdict.
BellaSantiago1975 | BellaSantiago1975
NTA. Partner hoped for a change of mind. Dump him. 👶🙅♀️💔
Puzzleheaded-Value38 | Puzzleheaded-Value38
Sharing the truth about fertility is important, but not mandatory 🙅♀️
Supersaneduck | Supersaneduck
Being honest upfront is key. Don't let anyone manipulate you. ✌🏻
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Medical history important for emergency situations. 99% NTA. ❤
Raspbers | Raspbers
Be upfront about not wanting kids to filter out douchebags! 👌
Asmo___deus | Asmo___deus
Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for being sterilized. 👍
blondeheartedgoddess | blondeheartedgoddess
Be cautious, OP. Some partners lie about being child-free. NTA.
JadieJang | JadieJang
Run, OP! 😱 He's not trustworthy and tried to trap you 😠
Own_Can_3495 | Own_Can_3495
Partner blaming woman for not disclosing infertility. NTA, he is.
iyamlikelyhi | iyamlikelyhi
Marriage dealbreaker and communication breakdown 💔
Any_Weird_8686 | Any_Weird_8686