Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a doozy of a family drama on our hands. 😱 Imagine growing up with a mother who despised your very existence, while showering your siblings with love and affection. 💔 Talk about a recipe for lifelong trauma! 🤕 Well, that's exactly the situation our poor protagonist found themselves in. 😢 Now, with dear old mom six feet under, the siblings are demanding our hero's involvement in the funeral planning. 🪦 But after a lifetime of abuse, is it really fair to expect them to play the dutiful child? 🤔 Let's dive into this messy tale of family dysfunction and see if we can untangle this web of emotions! 🕸️
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😢 A Tragic Tale of a Mother's Cruelty
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🤔 The Reasons Behind the Hatred
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😭 The Hurtful Words of a Heartless Mother
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⚰️ Funeral Planning Fiasco
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💸 The Demand for Shared Expenses
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📰 The Obituary Objection
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🙅♂️ The Plea for Exclusion
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🗣️ The Ongoing Family Feud
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Internet Weighs In on Family Funeral Feud!
Well, well, well! It seems our protagonist's heart-wrenching tale of maternal abuse and sibling strife has struck a chord with the internet masses! From cries of support for our hero's stance to admonishments of their seemingly callous behavior, opinions are flying faster than a funeral wreath in a windstorm! Some argue that blood is thicker than water, insisting that our protagonist should put aside their pain for the sake of family unity. Others vehemently defend their right to distance themselves from the toxic legacy of their late mother. It's a moral quandary that would make even Solomon scratch his beard in contemplation! So, what does the court of public opinion have to say about this familial fiasco? Let's take a gander at the top responses and see where the chips fall!
Stand firm and don't let them guilt trip you. 💪
TrayMc666 | TrayMc666
NTA suspects family wants to split funeral cost 💎
DrunkOnRedCordial | DrunkOnRedCordial
Supportive comment, encouraging to move on and enjoy holidays 🎄
KJoD83 | KJoD83
Stand your ground and don't let abusive family guilt trip you. 🙌
Aquarius052 | Aquarius052
Standing up to abusive family, NTA, don't owe them anything 👏
mxster_queen | mxster_queen
The commenter suggests a condition for helping with the funeral. NTA.
knittingneedles321 | knittingneedles321
Polite but firm NTA for refusing to help cruel mom's funeral 🙌
Asaneth | Asaneth
Savage obituaries as revenge for abusive mom? NTA wins again.
Bjnboy | Bjnboy
Celebrating the demise of an abusive parent is normal. Cut off deluded siblings. 🔪
FakinFunk | FakinFunk
NTA takes the high road but suggests singing 'Ding, Dong, the Witch Is Dead' at funeral 🎶
PuttingTheRonInWrong | PuttingTheRonInWrong
Respect your own wishes. Don't let anyone guilt trip you. 💪
klurtin | klurtin
Sibling unawareness: a common issue in abusive family dynamics 🤷♂️
Proud_Fisherman_5233 | Proud_Fisherman_5233
Set clear boundaries and don't let them guilt-trip you 💪
outstanding_move_ko | outstanding_move_ko
Ignoring toxic family: NTA, keep your money and peace 👍
BeaArt78 | BeaArt78
Block them! They only want you for funeral expenses. NTA.
dirtywetdreams | dirtywetdreams
Celebrating the death of an abuser is understandable. NTA.
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Sibling's grief may be making them blind to mother's abuse. NTA.
SpaceCommuter | SpaceCommuter
Savage reply to cruel mom's funeral. NTA wins.
Era_or_smth | Era_or_smth
Setting boundaries after abuse: NTA, communicate trauma, avoid triggers 👍
EmYeaItsMe | EmYeaItsMe
NTA. Family turned blind eye to abuse, don't owe them anything 😒
findingmyself37 | findingmyself37
Grieving for the mother you never had is painful enough 😔💔
FarNorthern | FarNorthern
NTA refuses to help with abusive mom's funeral, suggests fireworks 🎆
SPolowiski | SPolowiski
Siblings failed to protect from abusive mother. Don't fall for manipulation. NTA 👍
Tacos_and-tequila | Tacos_and-tequila
NTA for refusing to mourn your abuser 👍
YouFlatterMeBrian | YouFlatterMeBrian
Get revenge by crafting your own obituary. NTA 👌
OneJobToRuleThemAll | OneJobToRuleThemAll
Siblings asking for help after years of abuse? NTA 👏
pinnnsfittts | pinnnsfittts
Survivor's siblings may not understand abuse. Inheritance not mandatory.
AffectionateHand2206 | AffectionateHand2206
Sibling takes charge of abusive father's funeral, brother approves humorously 😂
MBuhnie | MBuhnie
Sibling conflict over abusive mom's funeral. NTA vs siblings
Indy_Anna | Indy_Anna
Choosing not to help with abusive mother's funeral. NTA 💪
embopbopbopdoowop | embopbopbopdoowop
Advice on accepting siblings may also be damaged by abuse.
Cevanne46 | Cevanne46
You're not the a**hole for not helping with cruel mom's funeral 💔
PathA2020MLS2007 | PathA2020MLS2007
No love lost. NTA for not helping with abusive mom's funeral 👍
Aitasuperfan | Aitasuperfan
NTA. Enjoy your freedom 👏🏻 and blessings on you for a great life 🙏🏻
Time-Tie-231 | Time-Tie-231
Siblings want you to forgive abusive mom for their own benefit 👎
Idontlikesoup1 | Idontlikesoup1
No obligation to participate in planning or be active here. 💐
TheNapQueenIsHere | TheNapQueenIsHere
NTA stands up to abusive family with funeral ultimatum 👏
101037633 | 101037633
Choosing not to help with abusive mom's funeral, NTA ✔
i_like_cats_okay | i_like_cats_okay
A revengeful suggestion to expose the cruel mom's true nature 👌
Public-Ad-9827 | Public-Ad-9827
Declining to attend a funeral of an abusive parent is acceptable 💔
mayfeelthis | mayfeelthis
Savage yet NTA - Celebrating the end of a cruel life! 😂
LePingre | LePingre
Sibling's lack of responsibility, NTA's mom's funeral plans. 🙌
twinklingblueeyes | twinklingblueeyes
Petty revenge suggestion for abused commenter at mom's funeral.
Eryzell | Eryzell
Cutting off toxic family: NTA and NC eventually 🙌
user_ERK | user_ERK
NTA. Powerful story of standing up to abusive parents. 👏
GodsGiftToNothing | GodsGiftToNothing
Kudos for standing your ground and protecting your family! NTA 👏
Find_me_at_the_beach | Find_me_at_the_beach
Don't engage with them about the funeral, it won't help 😊
Rilenaveen | Rilenaveen
Family can't force love for abusive mom. NTA 👏
mireagy | mireagy
Financial strain and past abuse justify not helping with funeral 👍
Cookies_2 | Cookies_2
Sibling prioritizes optics and money over abusive mom's funeral. NTA.
Mintyfresh2022 | Mintyfresh2022
Coping with the death of an abusive family member 💔
Findingbalance5454 | Findingbalance5454
Family expects abused son to help with abusive mom's funeral 😡
NowWithMoreChocolate | NowWithMoreChocolate
Validating the OP's decision to stay away from abusive mother's funeral. NTA 👍
gwhiz007 | gwhiz007
Cutting ties with abusive family - NTA, siblings enabling behavior 👍
forkocharles | forkocharles
Savage suggestion shuts down family trying to take advantage. NTA
froggiestfriend | froggiestfriend
Family betrayal and abuse, celebrate in your own way 👏
amaryllisjunebug | amaryllisjunebug
Block them entirely and don't respond to them ever 👍
Ghitit | Ghitit
Not the a**hole for refusing to help abusive mom's funeral 💀
KatMeowxx | KatMeowxx
Humorous response to pandemic paranoia in funeral context.
Fire-Tigeris | Fire-Tigeris
Sibling defends man's decision of not helping abusive mother's funeral 💪
Slow-Company-7711 | Slow-Company-7711
Standing up to family pressure after years of abuse 👏
WhatupSis7773 | WhatupSis7773
Don't give in to toxic family pressure! NTA 👏
RogueLadyCerulean | RogueLadyCerulean
Empathetic NTA commenter validates OP's decision to not help with abusive mom's funeral
Ebechops | Ebechops
Choosing to not contribute to abusive mother's funeral. NTA 👏
Fluffyjockburns | Fluffyjockburns
Choosing not to help with abusive mom's funeral. NTA.
OddTransportation121 | OddTransportation121
Refusing to pay for abusive mom's funeral - NTA 😤👏
AggravatingPatient18 | AggravatingPatient18
NTA takes a stand after years of abuse 🙌
MissNikitaDevan | MissNikitaDevan
Sibling refused to help abusive mom's funeral, NTA 😊
hausccat | hausccat
Write your own obituary and refuse to celebrate her life 👍
corgihuntress | corgihuntress
Breaking free from abuse is incredible. NTA for standing firm.
ididitforcheese | ididitforcheese
Cutting ties with toxic family: NTA, blood doesn't always matter 👍
Shnipi | Shnipi
Write your own obituary for your abusive mom. NTA 👏🤷🏻♀️
Super_Reading2048 | Super_Reading2048
Honesty is the best policy, NTA 👍
ConfusionPossible590 | ConfusionPossible590
Brutally honest refusal to whitewash years of abusive treatment. 😡
Impossible-Cattle504 | Impossible-Cattle504
Cash-grabbing family? NTA! Don't feel obligated to help them.
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Forgiving cruel mom for funeral? NTA says comment.
gigigalaxy | gigigalaxy
Set boundaries and don't engage. NTA.
Worth-Season3645 | Worth-Season3645
You owe them and her, absolutely nothing. Keep your head high! 👍
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