Buckle up, folks, because we've got a heart-wrenching tale of love, loss, and a whole lot of drama! 💔 When a young man loses his beloved brother, he's left reeling from the pain. 😢 But when his girlfriend shows up after the funeral in tears over her crappy day at work, things take a turn for the worse. 😬 Is he an a-hole for calling her out on her selfishness during his darkest hour? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 🕵️♀️
Diply | Diply
💔 Tragedy Strikes: A Brother's Untimely Passing 😢
ihatestuartlittle101 | ihatestuartlittle101
Trending
🌹 Saying Goodbye: The Funeral 😔
ihatestuartlittle101 | ihatestuartlittle101
Must Read
😭 Girlfriend's Tearful Arrival: An Hour After the Funeral 🕰️
ihatestuartlittle101 | ihatestuartlittle101
💔 A World Falling Apart: The Depths of Grief 😞
ihatestuartlittle101 | ihatestuartlittle101
😡 Calling Out Selfishness: A Grieving Man's Frustration 🗣️
ihatestuartlittle101 | ihatestuartlittle101
🤔 AITA for Calling My Girlfriend Selfish? 🙋♂️
ihatestuartlittle101 | ihatestuartlittle101
✍️ Edit: Recurring Behavior, But Usually Not Bothersome 🔄
ihatestuartlittle101 | ihatestuartlittle101
🤷♂️ Day-to-Day: Her Problems Aren't Actually Trivial 🗓️
ihatestuartlittle101 | ihatestuartlittle101
Grief-Stricken BF vs. Work-Stressed GF: Who's the A-Hole? 🤯
Looks like we've got ourselves a classic case of "my pain is bigger than your pain" here! Our grieving boyfriend is at his wit's end after losing his brother, and his girlfriend's work woes just ain't cutting it in the sympathy department. But wait, there's more! Turns out this isn't the first time she's made it all about her. So, is our man justified in his frustration, or should he have cut her some slack? The internet has thoughts, and you won't believe what they have to say! Grab your popcorn, 'cause this one's about to get juicy!
Switching from crying to anger unnerved commenter. NTA.
Able_Calligrapher178 | Able_Calligrapher178
Supportive commenter sympathizes with OP's devastating loss and girlfriend's selfish behavior.
embopbopbopdoowop | embopbopbopdoowop
NTA. Your girlfriend was being selfish and lacks empathy 🤷♂️
TrayMc666 | TrayMc666
Calling out attention-seeking behavior at a funeral 😱
Lythiel | Lythiel
Supportive comment offers condolences and advice for grieving boyfriend.
Nessie51 | Nessie51
Dump her? Harsh, but was she really being selfish?
MYSTIC_SALAD | MYSTIC_SALAD
Evaluate your relationship and prioritize your well-being. #NTA 👍
penguin_squeak | penguin_squeak
Red flag? Commenter suspects manipulation, offers condolences. NTA.
AlienGoddess91 | AlienGoddess91
NTA. Girlfriend's selfish behavior raises red flags 👉🏻💔
Vaalzhin | Vaalzhin
Is girlfriend's behavior a pattern of attention-seeking? 🤔
GloInTheDarkUnicorn | GloInTheDarkUnicorn
Grieving man receives support after calling out girlfriend's behavior 👏
TravellingUnicornMIA | TravellingUnicornMIA
NTA just lost brother but GF prioritizes work drama, suggests new job 👍
Gabbz737 | Gabbz737
Supportive comment suggests therapy and self-reflection for girlfriend's behavior.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Losing a brother is tough, girlfriend's self-centeredness adds insult 😔
GrabOk6838 | GrabOk6838
Grieving man called a**hole for not comforting selfish girlfriend 😱
Prize_Fox_9163 | Prize_Fox_9163
Condolences offered to commenter, agreement that girlfriend was inconsiderate.
JupiterSWarrior | JupiterSWarrior
Acknowledging others' problems is important even during tough times. NAH 👍
WhyCommentQueasy | WhyCommentQueasy
Condolences for loss. NTA. GF's behavior was inappropriate and selfish 😑
Character-Grape520 | Character-Grape520
Insensitive girlfriend complains about job at brother's funeral.
Countrach | Countrach
Grieving boyfriend gets support for calling out girlfriend's behavior.
bab_101 | bab_101
NTA. Relationship advice after loss of loved one 💔
Vera_Telco | Vera_Telco
Setting boundaries is crucial for a healthy relationship 👍
OkProduce8226 | OkProduce8226
Break up with her. Narcissists only think about themselves 🤷🏻♂️
Aggravating-Dot-5453 | Aggravating-Dot-5453
Encouraging empathy and communication in relationships 👨🏻👩🏻
riasgremoryslave | riasgremoryslave
Helpful article on supporting and complaining, girlfriend was selfish. NTA.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Girlfriend's fake tears reveal her manipulative behavior, NTA.
MK_King69 | MK_King69
NTA calls out girlfriend for selfish behavior at funeral 😱
that-1-chick-u-know | that-1-chick-u-know
Supportive comment without context 🤗
annang | annang
Setting boundaries in a relationship is important for emotional health 👍
Ga1aticOverlord | Ga1aticOverlord
Dump her! NTA calls out girlfriend's "selfish" behavior 😱
Infinitecurlieq | Infinitecurlieq
NTA, insensitive girlfriend prioritized her work issues over brother's funeral 😒
FormalJellyfish4683 | FormalJellyfish4683
NTA calls out girlfriend's attention-seeking behavior 👏
leal_diamante | leal_diamante
Partner's self-centered behavior after sibling's death is a red flag 😡
kindly-shut-up | kindly-shut-up
NTA's girlfriend called him an a**hole on his brother's funeral 😱
stinkyandlulu | stinkyandlulu
Harsh advice for a grieving girlfriend 😕
SicilianUSGuy | SicilianUSGuy
Break up with her, she's selfish and not worth it. 👍
rainbow_mak3r | rainbow_mak3r
Valid feelings, but inappropriate timing. NTA wins.
GR33N4L1F3 | GR33N4L1F3
Partner's selfish behavior at funeral reveals deeper character flaw 😕
TrainingDearest | TrainingDearest
NTA, but take time to grieve before making decisions 😢
[deleted] | [deleted]
Empathetic commenter advises to leave unsupportive girlfriend during grief 😢
[deleted] | [deleted]
Partner's selfishness called out in blunt comment. 💔
[deleted] | [deleted]
Encouraging breakup and self-care after insensitive partner at funeral 💔
Effective_Speed_8110 | Effective_Speed_8110
Ex prioritized being important over partner's father's death 🙄
ZephyThrowaway | ZephyThrowaway
User criticizes girlfriend's behavior at brother's funeral, calls her selfish 😒
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. Girlfriend's selfishness and immaturity may require a break-up 🚩
Yiayia_Ioanna | Yiayia_Ioanna
Girlfriend's tears at funeral called "selfish" by commenter 😶
WinEquivalent4069 | WinEquivalent4069
Funeral drama leads to break up advice in comments 👍
JennerikUse | JennerikUse
Break up with her, your feelings will always be on back-burner 😒
One_Experience_265 | One_Experience_265
NTA! Relationship red flag. End it before it gets worse. 👍
[deleted] | [deleted]
Insensitive girlfriend criticized job at brother's funeral. Not cool. 😒
Shar4j | Shar4j
Questioning girlfriend's honesty, commenter advises reflection before relationship continuation.
ReportSufficient7929 | ReportSufficient7929
NTA calls out girlfriend for selfish behavior during trauma dumping 🗑🏻💔
Limerase | Limerase
Supportive comment offers relationship advice after girlfriend's insensitive behavior.
maybebaby83 | maybebaby83
Grieving man prioritizes trivial problem? Internet weighs in. 🤔
jma7400 | jma7400
Lack of empathy in partner, commenter is NTA 😢
Maleficent-Ear3571 | Maleficent-Ear3571
Supportive commenter advises to drop unsympathetic girlfriend. 👍
akshetty2994 | akshetty2994
Condolences offered with criticism of girlfriend's behavior. #NTA 😢
sam_from_bombay | sam_from_bombay
Condolences given to bereaved man and validation for his feelings.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Supportive comment offers comfort and hope for grieving process 💔
mykeltylezard | mykeltylezard
Heartless girlfriend lacks empathy, NTA should let her go 💔
Lisard13 | Lisard13
Condolences to OP. NTA, GF lacked grace to be supportive. 😢
tacokato | tacokato
Heartless girlfriend misses funeral, commenter calls her out as selfish.
spaceyjaycey | spaceyjaycey
Redditor sympathizes with man who called out girlfriend's behavior.
possiblycrazy79 | possiblycrazy79
Grief is personal. NTA for reacting differently. 😢👏
Glad_Quote_6087 | Glad_Quote_6087
Heartless girlfriend berates grieving boyfriend - NTA to let go 💔
neverclearone | neverclearone
